Pick your commute tolerance first
San Diego County is enormous and the freeways bind up predictably. A place that's 12 miles from work can be a 45-minute drive at 5pm. Decide the maximum commute you'll actually tolerate, then draw your search area from that — not from a list of neighborhood names.
Local tip: Drive your prospective commute at the actual hour you'd be driving it, on a weekday, before signing anything.
